Giuseppe Nespeca è architetto e sacerdote. Cultore della Sacra scrittura è autore della raccolta "Due Fuochi due Vie - Religione e Fede, Vangeli e Tao"; coautore del libro "Dialogo e Solstizio".
A teenager travelled attached to a train for several kilometres.
It is neither the only nor the first madness among 'bored and satiated' teenagers [not all] to whom we parents have given, in my opinion, too much.
There are several dangerous games in vogue: jumping from one balcony to another, or similar feats; binge drinking, pretending to strangle oneself, hanging upside down.
I read on social media that the latest stunt is to beat up passers-by and put it all on the net (I don't know if this is reliable).
Such abnormal behaviour could perhaps be avoided if parents set limits, but often they don't have them either.
It is true that such behaviour may be due to emulation of some false myth.
But beyond these extreme behaviours, playing is important for the human being.
In ancient times, Aristotle likened the concept of play to joy and virtue, while Kant called it a 'pleasurable' activity.
In the 1938 book Homo Ludens, Huizinga says that culture is born in a playful form, because everything comes in the form of play; and by playing, the collective expresses the explanation of life: play does not change into culture, but culture initially has the character of play.
In psychology, play plays a key role in the psychological development of the child - above all, of his or her personality.
Roger Caillois in his book 'Games and Men' (Ed. Bompiani) groups playful activity into four substantial classes, depending on whether competition, chance, simulacrum or vertigo prevails in the game.
He named them Agon (competition), Alea (chance, fate), Mimicry (Mimicry, disguise), Ilings (Vertigo). This distinction groups games of the same species.
In the game we first find amusement, undisciplinedness, little control, to which the author gave the term 'paidia' to arrive later at a disciplined, rule-abiding activity (Ludus).
Agon represents personal merit and is manifested in both its muscular and intellectual forms.
Examples are sports competitions, but also games of intellectual ability. The main aim is to assert one's own superiority.
Alea is the Latin word for the dice game; here the player is helpless and relies on fate, on destiny.
Mimicry includes acting, mimicry, disguise. Man abandons his own personality to pretend another.
Mimicry is conjuring; for the actor, it is attracting the other person's attention.
The last class of games described by Caillois is called Ilings.
It consists in making the consciousness feel a considerable fright.
This bewilderment is usually sought for its own sake.
Caillois gives us the example of the dancing dervishes who seek intoxication by turning in on themselves to the increasing rhythm of drums and the fear consists in this frenzied turning in on themselves.
On the other hand, without looking for striking examples, every child knows the effect of whirling around.
This kind of play is not only found in human beings, but also in the animal world.
Dogs sometimes spin on themselves to catch their tails, until they fall off.
The author cites the case of chamois as indicative.
According to Karl Groos, 'they climb up snowfields and from there each one jumps up the slope while the others watch' with the risk of crashing down.
In the course of my profession, I have often encountered teenagers playing games of this kind.
Boys on mopeds challenging cars or running red lights. Or even worse, who played walking in a slightly inebriated state on the side of a bridge.
In the last years of my profession I noticed that several teenagers were getting cuts on their bodies.
The incidents reported in the media about these extreme behaviours should not be ignored.
Of course we have all had moments when we have felt a sense of vertigo: swings as children, or games at the various amusement parks come to mind.
With increasing affluence, society often produces more and more powerful cars and motorbikes.
And there [beyond the status symbol] is also a conscious or unconscious search for a sense of vertigo.
But it should be understood that by associating vertigo (ilings) with fate (alea)... the game becomes danger - sometimes deadly.
Francesco Giovannozzi psychologist-psychotherapist.
“Love is an excellent thing”, we read in the book the Imitation of Christ. “It makes every difficulty easy, and bears all wrongs with equanimity…. Love tends upward; it will not be held down by anything low… love is born of God and cannot rest except in God” (III, V, 3) [Pope Benedict]
«Grande cosa è l’amore – leggiamo nel libro dell’Imitazione di Cristo –, un bene che rende leggera ogni cosa pesante e sopporta tranquillamente ogni cosa difficile. L’amore aspira a salire in alto, senza essere trattenuto da alcunché di terreno. Nasce da Dio e soltanto in Dio può trovare riposo» (III, V, 3) [Papa Benedetto]
For Christians, non-violence is not merely tactical behaviour but a person's way of being (Pope Benedict)
La nonviolenza per i cristiani non è un mero comportamento tattico, bensì un modo di essere (Papa Benedetto)
But the mystery of the Trinity also speaks to us of ourselves, of our relationship with the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit (Pope Francis)
Ma il mistero della Trinità ci parla anche di noi, del nostro rapporto con il Padre, il Figlio e lo Spirito Santo (Papa Francesco)
Jesus contrasts the ancient prohibition of perjury with that of not swearing at all (Matthew 5: 33-38), and the reason that emerges quite clearly is still founded in love: one must not be incredulous or distrustful of one's neighbour when he is habitually frank and loyal, and rather one must on the one hand and on the other follow this fundamental law of speech and action: "Let your language be yes if it is yes; no if it is no. The more is from the evil one" (Mt 5:37) [John Paul II]
Gesù contrappone all’antico divieto di spergiurare, quello di non giurare affatto (Mt 5, 33-38), e la ragione che emerge abbastanza chiaramente è ancora fondata nell’amore: non si deve essere increduli o diffidenti col prossimo, quando è abitualmente schietto e leale, e piuttosto occorre da una parte e dall’altra seguire questa legge fondamentale del parlare e dell’agire: “Il vostro linguaggio sia sì, se è sì; no, se è no. Il di più viene dal maligno” (Mt 5, 37) [Giovanni Paolo II]
And one thing is the woman before Jesus, another thing is the woman after Jesus. Jesus dignifies the woman and puts her on the same level as the man because he takes that first word of the Creator, both are “God’s image and likeness”, both; not first the man and then a little lower the woman, no, both. And the man without the woman next to him - both as mother, as sister, as bride, as work partner, as friend - that man alone is not the image of God (Pope Francis)
E una cosa è la donna prima di Gesù, un’altra cosa è la donna dopo Gesù. Gesù dignifica la donna e la mette allo stesso livello dell’uomo perché prende quella prima parola del Creatore, tutti e due sono “immagine e somiglianza di Dio”, tutti e due; non prima l’uomo e poi un pochino più in basso la donna, no, tutti e due. E l’uomo senza la donna accanto – sia come mamma, come sorella, come sposa, come compagna di lavoro, come amica – quell’uomo solo non è immagine di Dio (Papa Francesco)
Only one creature has already scaled the mountain peak: the Virgin Mary. Through her union with Jesus, her righteousness was perfect: for this reason we invoke her as Speculum iustitiae. Let us entrust ourselves to her so that she may guide our steps in fidelity to Christ’s Law (Pope Benedict)
Una sola creatura è già arrivata alla cima della montagna: la Vergine Maria. Grazie all’unione con Gesù, la sua giustizia è stata perfetta: per questo la invochiamo Speculum iustitiae. Affidiamoci a lei, perché guidi anche i nostri passi nella fedeltà alla Legge di Cristo (Papa Benedetto)
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